My rugby history isn’t particularly long but what I don’t have in regard
to years or extensive training programs I have made up for in sheer
determination and love for the sport. My first exposure to rugby (and
the people who love rugby) was in Australia nearly 12 years ago. I loved
the culture, contact, the social team building, and camaraderie.
Ironically enough, I opted to play Aussie Rules Football instead (I
know I know, what a ninny but hey still a contact sport!). I came home
though toting my little rugby ball with me and there it sat in my garage
until I happened to sit down in a graduate class in Wilmington, NC next
to the person who became one of my closest friends and biggest
champions for what I could potentially do on the pitch! He convinced me
to get out to touch with the local men’s club in town and it’s been
RUGBY LOVE ever since!
I started to travel literally everywhere with the Cape Fear Men’s Rugby Club. Any and all rugby travel, no matter the distance or event, I went
to. I absorbed everything I could, constantly practiced, watched video,
ran drills, and before long started jumping on women’s teams that I
would encounter along the way. The men quite literally taught me all the
skills I needed to know. I never lacked for guidance both good and the
otherwise questionable. Without them I would certainly not have the
love of the sport, knowledge, and appreciation for the rugby culture
that I do.
With no women’s team in town, I was limited in what and who I was able
to play with but eventually got recruited by miss Maddy Clark and the
Charlotte Harlots after impressing her at a holiday 7s tournament. Much
like the Cape Fear men, those gals adopted me in true rugger fashion
with no questions asked and gave me the great honor of getting to sport
their jersey on my first official team!
After a couple of years of being a “professional” rugby whore for no
less a dozen or so teams, I decided it was time to kick start the
program back in Wilmington, NC for the 7s season. The local university,
UNC-Wilmington, had a solid rugby program with many of the girls
reaching graduating age and invested in getting a Women’s Cape Fear side started. With their boundless effort and help we were able to
get a roster of 19 girls together and had an amazing experience
together that I wouldn’t trade for anything.
Since then I have transitioned jobs and am now based out of New Orleans
and play with the Louisiana Lagniappe’s (Because we are a little
something extra!), a combination team of New Orleans and Baton Rouge
women. They alone are the only thing I knew I could count on when I
moved to a city I have never been to without knowing a soul and, sure
enough, they are proving again why there can possibly be no other sport
that provides you with an instant family that is more inclusive,
supportive, challenging, and fun loving.
I consider it an honor to have played with so many groups of amazing men
and women. Each one has given me something new to consider, a new
challenge to face, or a new skill to master. With every new group I meet
I am reminded about how much I truly love the mentality, toughness, and
culture that goes along with being called a “Rugger” and I have no
doubt whatsoever that the Stars will be another beautiful addition to my
rugby family.
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